Tomorrow is my birthday. I have a little confession to make: for the first time since I can remember, I am entering the new year and a new trip around the sun WITHOUT A PLAN.   Whut? My inner goat (Capricorn) HATES this!!! But when I sat down and had a heart to heart conversation with my Money Honey (I usually do this by journaling), I was really honest about not feeling called to invent a new program or recycle an old program right now. All I know is I’m leading my Bali retreat in June, and that’s almost full. … Continue reading »

I attended an annual holiday party last week with a bunch of coaching and author friends I’ve known for decades… I met someone new at this year’s party. She’s a TV writer, novelist, interior designer, amateur astrologer, former clinical psychoanalyst, and super cool human being. She was telling me about why she quit being a psychoanalyst: she found she was making her clients more dependent, not more empowered. (FYI I have nothing against psychoanalysis: I’m simply reporting HER experience.) This got me to thinking about how I coach to intentionally obsolete myself. I want my clients to be powerful miracle … Continue reading »

Super Rapid Life Changing Trick: You train the universe how to treat you by how you treat yourself. The more you value yourself, the more you bloom, and the better the world responds. Take a look at where you settle for less than you want, especially in relationships. Every time you settle you’re sending a message “this is what I deserve.” What do you need to say no to in order to say yes to yourself? (This is a question I ask my clients ALL the time.) Pick ONE thing. It could be: with friends with family with work with … Continue reading »

If life looks dramatic, it doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. You can vibe high as the sky and still experience earthquakes, pandemics, supply chain issues, accidents, illnesses, loss. This is the human experience. Not your fault!

I can’t help but think of the Wheel of Fortune Tarot card to illustrate this idea. The wheel turns because it’s supposed to turn. (See the Monster at the bottom?) Continue reading »

Instant Change   We have been sold such a bill of goods with this idea that it takes, oh, I don’t know, 30 days to change a habit. This is crazy! Like let’s say, for example, you struggle with traffic 40 minutes every day to get to work, and then you discover another route that would take half your drive time off, would cut your traffic time 20 minutes. How long do you think it would take you to change that habit?   Change can be quick and easy.   I don’t believe that habits are these Sisyphean-like, push the … Continue reading »

Baeth Davis interviewed me for her show Align to Your Design back in March of 2024. I am so in love with this collaboration/interview that I could not wait for Baeth to edit it an post it to her podcast! Here is the raw, unfiltered video that Baeth sent me. Baeth Davis is an amazing, wise, and world-reknown reader of people through their hands and Human Design. On this episode Baeth and I dive deep into transforming your relationship with money from a monster to a honey (and more), and then Baeth reads my Human Design chart. Wow! Totally blew … Continue reading »

If you’re somebody who has an urge–even a compulsion–to help others, this article is for you.
Because sometimes that impulse to help backfires and blows up in our face. Continue reading »