Years after “Productivity for Perfectionists” Coach Deborah Hurwitz went with me to Bali for my Ultimate Money Goddess Experience coaching retreat to slay her money monster (and make millions of dollars in the years since)… she came back to me to slay a newer, bigger monster. Continue reading »

Do you suspect you have a codependent relationship with money?

I’m answering a question that came in to me privately that I thought was such a great question and so useful that I would share my response publicly.  

The writer was concerned that asking, “What do I need to do now to make my Money Honey love me, or be happy and wanna stay with me?” was creating a co-dependent dynamic. 

That question would TOTALLY create a co-dependent dynamic… that’s why that’s NOT what I teach!   Continue reading »

I got an email this morning from a person who purchased my book,
slayed her (personified) Money Monster, met her new “Money Honey” and
had great results. She describes her MH as “funny, irreverent, sexy and
opinionated.” (I love that!) Her new relationship with money improved her sales…

And without getting into details, something’s started getting in the way of this
new relationship. Her imaginary MH “gets mad” and feels less close, less tactile.

So she wanted to know if her Money Honey was mad at her. Continue reading »

Super Rapid Life Changing Trick: You train the universe how to treat you by how you treat yourself. The more you value yourself, the more you bloom, and the better the world responds. Take a look at where you settle for less than you want, especially in relationships. Every time you settle you’re sending a message “this is what I deserve.” What do you need to say no to in order to say yes to yourself? (This is a question I ask my clients ALL the time.) Pick ONE thing. It could be: with friends with family with work with … Continue reading »

In this Sacred Success Salon, Anna Kowalska and I explored the 6 steps to transform your Relationship with Money from a Monster to a Honey.

Then we had a chat about what is going on–good and bad–in the personal development business world, and what I believe wants to happen to serve clients better. (I have strong opinions!) Continue reading »

Cool! I was quoted in this article on high-earning women and financial anxiety. Feeling stressed out about money is almost universal among women today. A recent Ellevest survey found that money is women’s No. 1 source of stress and that more than half (59%) of women worry about money at least once a week. The survey also found that a higher salary does not equate to less financial stress. The majority (75%) of women making more than $250,000 in annual income said that they do not feel in control of their money. So, why are even wealthy women feeling financial … Continue reading »

When you’re doing everything in your power to get a result, and it’s not happening, you are protecting yourself from what you want. It’s not an accident.

Today I thought I’d share my own personal story, to illustrate how to rapidly and permanently change your Relationship with Money from Monster to Honey. I was always told, “Go to school, get good grades, do good work and you’ll make money.” Ha! Lies! They have little to do with each other.

Let’s start with my “tale of woe,” and I’ll guide you through my process of transformation.
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