Talk about manifestation: yesterday was the 8-year anniversary of my first wedding to Devin. (Yeah, we’re 26 weddings into getting married 100 times in 100 countries.) I kept telling the Universe that I wanted to travel the world with the love of my life. I didn’t think She was listening… ha! A girlfriend (a world famous hand analyst) took one look at my hands and said, “Wow. You are a Manifestor!” She’s right. The irony is I’m NOT a Law of Attraction coach or even a LOA practitioner. (But do whatever works for you, LOA friends!) In my experience like … Continue reading »

Today is the 7th anniversary of my *legal* wedding to Devin. Technically this is wedding #14 of 26 weddings in 21, as we aim for 100… but it was our first officially recognized U.S. government wedding. We were a little embarrassed about admitting that our first 13 weddings around the world didn’t count, no matter how official, so a year into our marriage we went to the courthouse and made it official in our own country. Oh, and we didn’t even start living together until a few weeks before this photo. A little marriage background: I met Devin when I … Continue reading »

La Fortuna is the Wheel of Fortune in Tarot.

I love this card because 1) when it shows up in a spread it’s frequently an indicator of a successful outcome, and 2) it’s a reminder that everything changes, and when you’re at the bottom you’re already on your way back up.

It’s also a town in the heart of Costa Rica. Continue reading »

We’re talking about MANIFESTATION! Join us for the 11:11:2020 episodie of Crazy Sexy Midlife Love Radio (and now video, too), live streamed at https://bbsradio.com/crazysexymidlifelove! Manifestation is one of my favorite topics, obviously, and Devin’s wheelhouse as well. Today we’re talking about Love, Magic, and Manifestation. (And reading Tarot.) Send in your questions about manifestation–in love, money, anything. Maybe Devin will even pull a card for you.

EVERY astrologer told me my love life was doomed… Astrologer after astrologer–Vedic and Western–and even the numerologist–shot down my hopes for love in this life. For someone who was actively searching for my prince since my first Disney movie, this was the worst news possible. Then I sat next to an upbeat woman with blonde curly hair at a professional networking dinner. As soon as she told me she was a Vedic astrologer I poured out all the reasons another Vedic astrologer told me I was doomed to struggle with love for the rest of my life and would probably … Continue reading »

Someone just asked me,
“Why so many marriage ceremonies?”

Here was my response: Continue reading »

Devin and celebrated our 25th time getting married, last month in Lisbon, Portugal. I really haven’t shared how I turned my 45 year perfect track record of romantic failure around. I also wanted to punch some holes into that toxic narrative that tells us attracting love gets more difficult as we get older. (Spoiler Alert: it gets better!) I’ll be sharing what changes with age, and how to use it to your advantage. I finally share my vulnerable, raw, detailed process of slaying my Love Monster and magnetizing my Human Honey soon after. Enjoy the show!