A reader sent in this awesome question:
“Is it really possible to create a lasting change with my relationship to money? I’ve tried so many things but always go back to the same fearful thinking and immature behavior with money.”
The answer is yes, but it’s not automatic.
Cause it’s not enough to get married, say I love you, and be set for life, right? There’s the day to day relationship stuff.
Same thing with your new relationship with money. Once you’ve changed your relationship, that’s when the real work begins.
Here’s a great Money Magnet Burning Question that came in:
“When I speak to money, do I need to be holding some money in my hands or can I just ‘speak to money’ as it were? I’m not sure what I need to visualize when I speak to money.”
Stop thinking of your Money as money. Money is not a number, it’s a relationship.
Make your Money Honey a HUMAN you would love and adore for his own sake, having nothing to do with his being money. You can’t love a piece of paper like you can love a lover.
A client today was telling me how much easier it was to care for and respect money when it became a HUMAN being.
You wanna learn UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? This is it, baby. That’s your relationship with your Money Honey. He loves you no matter what. You love him no matter what. And he’s so real you get butterflies in your stomach. (The Money Honey can be female too.)
But your Money Honey will never really exist for you unless you exorcise the monster before him. That’s the price of admission. Continue reading »
Your relationship dynamic with money usually parallels other relationships in your life–the wounds of childhood, broken hearts, every hurt or betrayal or feeling of being unsafe goes into who become in relationship to the world… and to money. The happy news is that when people transform their mean, scary, witholding Money Monster into that Money Honey-person who loves you and admires you and demands your self-respect… your other relationships change too! Continue reading »
Letter from Financial Alchemist Ann Rusnak:
I fired my original money honey back in August. He expected perfection
from me. The moment I fired him this dreamy, sexy french guy, Antoine, showed up. It was
like he was waiting for me to get the other guy out of the way. Continue reading »