Is positive thinking the answer? Not always.

Not all valid perspectives are happy perspectives.

Healing takes time. And if we want to help our friends and clients, we MUST respect the life cycle of grief.

I suspect many people stay stuck because their grief was never validated. Continue reading »

I call this the Tyranny of Positive Thinking, or the Lie of Attraction. There’s a promise being made: “If you think good things, good things happen. If something bad happened, it’s because you had a negative thought.” Continue reading »