Why is imagining Money as a hot, sexy, super lover, so powerful? (We’re talking windfalls of hundreds, thousands, even tens of thousands of dollars within hours of creating a new relationship). Making Money a best friend or doting grandparent or faerie or Oprah just doesn’t cut it…

• The stakes are higher when sex is involved. It’s in our DNA. Grandma’s house or a slumber party with Angelina Jolie? You decide.

• The relationship is more equal: our lover wants reciprocation. Everybody thinks, “What has Money done for me lately?” Not many people ask, “How can I make Money happy.” It’s a world of difference and the key to dramatic results.

• A man will do ANYTHING to win the woman he loves. Just watch a guy drunk dial.

• Ditto for women. Continue reading »

Just yesterday, a new visitor to my website wrote to me:

“How do I make money appear in my life? I try only thinking about having it instead of “not” having it….but that is hard when you are in financial crisis each week.”

Here are my thoughts:

I think we’ve been sold a bill of goods.

Well intentioned people will tell you that if you think positive, raise your vibration, say affirmations, practice the “law of attraction,” only focus on good feelings and have enough faith, the money fairy will come along and make you rich. Continue reading »