Devin and celebrated our 25th time getting married, last month in Lisbon, Portugal. I really haven’t shared how I turned my 45 year perfect track record of romantic failure around. I also wanted to punch some holes into that toxic narrative that tells us attracting love gets more difficult as we get older. (Spoiler Alert: it gets better!) I’ll be sharing what changes with age, and how to use it to your advantage. I finally share my vulnerable, raw, detailed process of slaying my Love Monster and magnetizing my Human Honey soon after. Enjoy the show!

Devin and I have returned home after our “30 Days Of Love” tour through France, Belgium, Spain and Portugal, 4 weddings richer than when we departed. (Here’s a first: immediately after our wedding in Madrid, I received 6 more wedding proposals!) I documented every day of our trip with videos and photos, and posted them to the “In The Know Bride” site my husband created after asking me to marry him 100 time in 100 countries. One of the delightful things that made this trip different from any other is Devin and I knew and met up with friends in … Continue reading »

Today is the 5 year anniversary of my first date with Devin, and to celebrate, today’s post is all about LOVE!!! A few days ago I shot a FB Live video about Love, Marriage and Magick… how I wanted to blow off our first date, how a near death experience with a lion inspired Devin to propose, how I freaked out about getting married, what has surprised me most about this whole marriage, love, and Devin… and of course the role of magick, too. Very personal stuff. And fun. For better or worse, I filter nothing. 🙂   Please post your … Continue reading »

I shouldn’t be writing this. Affirmations are such big business for my friends and colleagues and the people who hire me. And affirmations are stupid.

Why?

When you can’t get (or leave) a job, or pay your mortgage, or find a date… chanting to yourself, “I’m a millionaire,” isn’t going to solve your problems.

Don’t get me wrong. I LIKE affirmations. I think they’re useful. I have a few in my book. I’m the kind of girl who makes things happen by thinking, “I want that.” But I do a lot of inner work to make that possible.

Affirmations are like putting pretty make-up on a canker sore: it doesn’t cover the problem. Continue reading »