A Magic Question is a question that gives you an answer that empowers you.
What we DON’T want to ask are questions like, “Why do I always F*** up?” or “Why can’t I get a boyfriend?” or “Why can’t I make money?”
The answers you get from those questions will NOT help you! They’ll just validate what you don’t want. Ick!
I was having a great session with a client yesterday. Super amazing guy–successful in business, in love with his wife, utterly devoted to his kids, a budding world leader in commerce and philanthropy… and he noticed that his “opportunity magnet” was slowing down in recent weeks, and he was battling negative thoughts and self doubt.
Why? Because he’s human. And that’s what we humans do.
So I decided to bring him back to reality, and back on the right track, with the sort of questions that are guaranteed to move any person forward.
Here are the questions I asked my client to ask himself, and share his responses with me: Continue reading