Another coach wanted to know why we “kill” the monster… I received an email this morning that was really interesting from another coach in Europe asking why I tell people they need to kill their money monster. This is a coaching question. I don’t write and answer coaching questions and private emails to non clients. because I would quickly burn out! I thought instead I would answer it in a video so that she and everybody else who has this question–because she’s not the only one–so I can talk to you at the same time. Now, first of all, my … Continue reading »

Friday I left a voice message for my estranged mother to tell her I love and appreciate her. It took me four tries to build up the courage to speak to her answering machine.   This is my first communication to her in over a decade.   I told her that if she was open to it, I’d love to come by and give her a kiss goodbye before she moves across the country. Maybe even introduce her to my husband. And if she’s not open, that’s perfectly okay, too. I love her and wish her every happiness.   She … Continue reading »

For the people who write to me asking for guidance destroying their Money Monster, this letter from Denise shows how it’s done:

“…I think it’s so interesting and yet,now, not surprising that the type of death my Money Monster had came in the same form of what I’ve experienced from it: a feeling of emotional torture, pressure and humiliation. It feels like such a release to have been given permission to turn these sabotaging feelings back to their rightful owner…” Continue reading »

Reader Question:

“What if my Money Monster is personified in several real people? Can I forgive them and still get rid of the Money Monster?” Continue reading »