My Newest Money Honey
Yesterday a coach friend kindly came over to my house because I wanted to get rid of a new “money monster” and I knew I could go deeper with a witness I trust.
Full disclosure: I wasn’t getting rid of a new money monster because of financial lack. In fact this week was a huge financial success.
This process goes so much deeper than just finances. It’s really about Life.
How I knew it was time to uncover and slay a new Money Monster…
The world was looking and feeling unfair and unsafe. A lot of crap related to climate change, racism, economic injustice, misogyny, etc. I was feeling too small for the impact I desire to make. By changing my relationship with “money”, I change my relationship with the world, life, and myself. It was time.
What I notice is I can go for years without needing to slay a monster, but when I do, I get a new message from a new Money “Honey” that is essential to my next breakthrough.
I met my new Money Honey.
He looks like my husband. He feels like my husband. He brought tears to my eyes.
That said, he’s NOT my husband. My husband gets to be my limited, flawed, and cherished human partner.
My Money Honey is not limited or flawed. My newest MH is the divine, god-like essence of my husband. For example, when my real-life husband says to me, “Morgana, you always get to choose Love or Fear. Which do you choose?” he sounds like my new Money Honey.
(To maintain the distinction between Money Honey and Human Honey, I call them by different names.)
The messages I got back, from my newest Money Honey:
1) Self-care. My MH wants me to take better care of myself. Take care of the stuff I’ve been putting off–get my eyesight checked. Get my hormones checked. Get a massage. Take better, loving care of myself.
2) I don’t need to know the How (of my business goals, goals for the world, or any goals). I’ve never manifested my results on a linear path. Opportunities drop in my lap when I get clear on what I want. It’s time to dream so the next steps can appear. It has always been thus.
How about you?
What’s YOUR experience with slaying new monsters and upgrading your Money Honey?
What messages are you getting from your MH?
Please post your thoughts and experiences below!
Namaste,
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Hi everyone, Don’t know how to get rid of the money monster. It just won’t leave me alone. It does not matter what I think or do. The monster is always there. I can think positive thoughts about money or anything I want to think about, but unfortunately my positive thinking seems to carry negative energy with it. My money monster is saying to me, ” I know you would like some cash and the answer is “NO!” I can ask for money and nothing happens. How can nothing happen if I have asked for what I think is a reasonable request? My problem is not in the asking or the thinking, but in letting go. If only I could stop wanting what I cannot have. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.
Hi Chris. First, a real Money Honey relationship isn’t possible until the monster is gone, and you ALWAYS have the power to destroy the monster.
We don’t ask our Money Honey to rescue us, to bring us cash, or do things for us. That’ll never work. The Money Honey is imaginary. The relationship is real. The “person” is imaginary. Instead we focus on the feeling of the relationship, the love, and we ask questions like, “what would make you happy?” or “what do you want me to learn here?” The answers that come back will always be loving.
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The Money Monster look like the bad thing towards money, and The Money Honey tell us about the good and optismistic and the love of money.
Hi Ong. It’s deeper than that. Step #1 is uncovering everything what has been most painful in your life, especially the stuff that does not look like it has anything to do with money. THAT is where your Money Monster really comes from.
Then you personify that pain into your “Money Monster.”
I encourage you to check out the many articles and videos in the “Money Monster” section of this blog for more guidance!
I love that we have to associate an image to our MONEY HONEY. I immediately thought of “GLINDA THE GOOD WITCH OF THE NORTH” from the Wizard of Oz…bestowing her blessings and gifts with her magic wand…therefore I always call of upon GLINDA to guide me to prosperity!
Hi Denise. I adore Glinda. Great job!
That said, in my experience you don’t want a “gift bestower” Money Honey. That can become a Money Monster very easily, because you’re looking to an outside source to bring you prosperity. Instead, a PARTNERSHIP OF EQUALS, who love each other to distractions… that’s what works best.
I encourage you to dive into the “Money Honey” section of this blog for excellent examples.
Keep going. You’re on the right track, just make your MH more personal, human, and intimate. 🙂
money monster is gone and it was a revelation to see him… made sense regarding the withholding i have experienced and disgust I have of the exploitive patriarch that the mm represented.
and i enjoyed killing him
the money honey immediately was there. he is a vishnu energy and a pirate independent male and reminds me of the crush i have/ had on an older cousin. (although he is not rich)
the presence is not so clear anymore. he asked me to check in everyday and i dont feel the energy. will keep asking the questions you posed above. thanks