The fabulous thing about my Relationship with Money work is that it constantly evolves.

Any trap, pit, or problem that could cause a client trouble has come up or it will… and the process gains a new nuance every time.

One concern I’ve seen popping up in the last few months is around the idea of “What? Now I have another person to please? Ewwww!”  That’s NOT how this works! And that’s why I was so glad to see this question come in:

“I have a question I’ve been trying to get my head around. If my “money
honey”  [new personified relationship with money] withdrew every time
I didn’t listen to her needs, wants and desires, then I would find myself in a
relationship with a very fickle and demanding, controlling person…. NOT what
I would want in real life (or I guess for my Money Honey). What am I
missing?” Gary

Bravo Gary for naming the problem! What you’re missing is NEW relationship with money!

“Fickle, demanding, and controlling” are spot-on descriptions of a Money Monster. In fact, and I’ll go way out on a limb here… these may also be descriptions of YOU in your relationship with money! Is it possible that you’re being fickle, demanding and controlling when you ignore and disregard your money?

What’s missing here is LOVE, TRUST, ROMANCE… and an understanding of your power in this relationship. The ball is always in your court. YOU drive the relationship.

What I’ve learned, being in this process for almost eight years myself, and having coached hundreds and hundreds of clients through my Financial Alchemy process… we have the power to break money’s heart every time we dishonor ourselves or reject him (or her, in your case). Money doesn’t know how to be with us when we harm ourselves or reject him/her.

I’m only speaking from experience, Gary.  In fact, I SHOT A VIDEO (with the worst suit and hair cut of my life!):

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Now I KNOW a number of you out there have had similar experiences. Please share your experiences, comments, and questions below. It’ll be good for you and the community. Thanks! 🙂
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