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2 Quick Tips to Instantly Raise your Self Worth (and net worth)

BaliDance4Here’s today’s Abundance and Prosperity tip. I received an email with this question:

“What’s the quickest and most loving way to raise my self esteem and increase my sense of worthiness?”

I hear my colleagues talk a lot about how undercharging is a reflection of low self esteem, and how you have to increase your self worth to increase your net worth. I think Suze Orman says something like that.

But nothing will lower your self esteem and self respect faster than undercharging!

I don’t know about you, but I can’t wait another forty years to resolve all my inner insecurities before I start making a living. So I’m going to give you a shortcut.

Wanna know my INSTANT, EASY strategy for a radical injection of self worth? Look OUTSIDE yourself for validation.

Surprised?

Here are some tips.

1) CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.  (This is why I lead my retreat way out there in beautiful Bali.) Start eliminating the downers. This can be as small and simple as cleaning your desk, getting rid of ill-fitting clothes, letting go of “friends” who disrespect you.

20th century philosopher/physicist/genius Buckminster Fuller said that “Environment is stronger than willpower.” You can try to think positive, raise your vibrations, and say your affirmations til you pass out; but your environment never rests. Those dirty dishes are working their black magic on your self worth even while you sleep.

It’s really hard to feel abundant and prosperous with a dirty car.

Wanna feel better really fast? MAKE A LIST of ten things that rub you the wrong way. Nothing is too small. You have no idea how much energy the smallest things suck: If you live with a burnt out lightbulb long enough, dimness becomes “normal” to you, the best you can expect, and what you feel you deserve.

Make your list. Pick one thing. Fix it.

You will feel so much better, so fast, it’ll give you a surge of energy to tackle the next one. Work your way down the list.

Self respect is action driven.

2) SEE YOURSELF AS YOUR MONEY SEES YOU.. If you have a romantic, loving relationship with your (personified) Money, your Money Honey will tell you how gorgeous, delicious, wonderful and desirable you are! Take his (or her) word for it. See yourself–and your worth–through the eyes of your beloved.

No one is more abundantly, scrumptiously confident than a person in love and loved. And it’s fun.

A lot of coaches will tell you that all change comes from within. Uh, not really. Change comes from inside AND out. The world works its magic on us. So why not stack the deck in your favor?


  1. August 21, 2009 at 4:59 am

    I like this.

    Although would question how ‘small and simple’ getting rid of friends who disrespect you is! (having done this and still reaping repercussions a year later)

    Good reminders.

    Rosalyn

  2. August 22, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    This was fab… Morgana, these simple steps can get people really moving and soaring in life. Having an evironment that exudes love, peace, happiness in all areas is a great place to start! I know when I have made a decision to get what I want (for instance better health) I began with three things one was clearing out my space. And my results were amazing!!

  3. August 28, 2009 at 11:22 am

    Thank you!

    I just fixed something that has been bugging me for almost a year: my dog barking in the backyard. I feel a whole lot better already!

    Your post helped me realize that all I had to do was block the stairs from the deck. The best thing is that I already had the stuff with which to do that, and didn’t even need to buy or build anything!

    Now to tackle the other things on my list!

  4. Tammy Voss
    August 31, 2011 at 8:51 pm

    Since I have discovered you and your teaching I am amazed at how my life is finally turning around. My heart is feeling better too. I am a changed woman. Tammy Voss

    • September 1, 2011 at 3:39 pm

      I’m so glad, Tammy!

      Warmly,
      Morgana

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  6. David Kaiser
    May 2, 2014 at 8:13 pm
    • morgana
      May 2, 2014 at 9:34 pm

      Thank you David!

      Warmly,
      Morgana

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