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The #1 Thing that Blocks Change, and how to Eliminate it Instantly

MorganaI had a wonderful coaching session this week with a member of my 90 Days of MH Love mastermind. In one hour she killed her Money Monster 3 TIMES before she really got rid of it.

My job is to keep the process going until the monster is really gone.

Each time I’d ask, “Is it gone?” she’d find a little bit of monster left. We’d follow that trail to find a deeper level and a truer monster. Until we found the core issue and killed the real life/love/money monster lurking behind the others.

And then when she met her new, “Money Honey,” he was REAL and wonderful and 100% fully present for her. Like night and day. One of the most powerful Money Honey connections I’ve ever witnessed. Yummmm!

And I’ll share with you what the final obstacle was in getting rid of her monster, because this is surprisingly common:


  • Fear that she would be nobody without this monster of scarcity and betrayal.
  • Fear that she’d have nothing in common with her family without her experiences of abuse.
  • Fear that she didn’t know what life would be like without the wounds and traumas that kept pulling the rug out from under her.

She is NOT alone in this. So many clients feel this way without even realizing it. Getting rid of the monster can be scary!

Because getting rid of what you know, no matter how awful, involves a DEATH.

  • The death of who you’ve known yourself to be in this toxic relationship.
  • The death of some positive benefits you’ve created to make the best of a bad situation.
  • The death of familiarity.
  • The death of things that no longer serve you.

This experience and fear of this “death” is the primary reason people don’t change, no matter how badly they need and want to do so.

Nobody talks about this.

And I’ll give you the secret to eliminating this gap instantaneously:

I NEVER remove something without replacing it with something better.

We don’t remove your money monster without giving you your money honey immediately.

This dynamic isn’t just true in your relationship with money.

I’ve worked with clients with eating disorders, fibromyalgia, bad romances, dishonest business partners, food addictions, and any number of other negative patterns.

No matter how obviously awful a circumstance might be, it has a gift and a pay off or it wouldn’t exist.

And the faster we find it and substitute it with something YOU want more, the more effortless, instantaneous, and PERMANENT your change will be.

Change does NOT take 21 days. That’s malarky!

Change takes an instant, when you have a reason and something better waiting for you.

To your abundance and prosperity,


  1. Meshach Okposi
    September 17, 2016 at 2:44 pm

    My question is how do you coach me one on one when you are over there and I am here

    • Morgana
      September 17, 2016 at 7:50 pm

      Thanks for asking, Meshach. Easy! I coach clients all over the planet by phone or skype. 🙂

  2. Sandra
    September 24, 2016 at 4:33 am

    Dear MOrgana ! What if the Money Monster is my Father , can this be ? I have the feeling it is so . .

    • Morgana
      September 24, 2016 at 7:28 am

      Hi Sandra. Your Money Monster isn’t your father, but he used your father to hurt you.

  3. Barbara
    September 27, 2016 at 1:09 pm

    Hi Morgana,
    I use to have a great life. My marriage ended, I lost my fair share of my business with my ex, the real estate market dumped, I lost $200k equity in my personal residence, short sold it 7 years ago, and my life has continued to spiral down. I am 51 yrs old, about to turn 52. I have been so very blue. My beloved dog and Dad both passed over the last year. My Mom refused to let me move into her home unless I attend her Church of Jehovah’s witnesses. I can’t seem to get a footing on my business, tried for 6 months straight. I have never felt so alone and depressed and desperate.

    • Morgana
      September 28, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      Ugh! It sounds like you’ve been going through a “dark night of the soul” for a long time. I feel for you! I understand. I’ve been there. What I’ve observed, in my own life and with clients, is this depth of pain gives you an advantage in the transformational process. We WANT polarity. There is no magic in neutrality. USE everything that’s wrong and create your Money Monster (steps 1 and 2 of Financial Alchemy®), and make that monster as big and bad as you can, before proceeding to the next steps. I’ve seen things get much better, very quickly, (many, many times) when we get rid of the Money Monster and replace him with your Money Honey.

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