Once in a while a client comes back to me and says their new relationship with money isn’t working. Where’s the abundance and prosperity? The first thing I always ask is, ‘What are you doing to make your Money happy?’

Silence.

If our first session was recent, I’ll ask, ‘Did you do what Money asked?’

Silence.

It’s always good to ask yourself, if you don’t trust money to be there for you, can money trust YOU? Your answer may be yes or no. It’s just a good place to look.

It’s not enough to have a nice idea of a cute money. Or even to have a real, POWERFUL new money honey who loves you like the be all and end all. Money’s not going to rescue you. That’s not the way this game is played.

If you want magic, if you want abundance and prosperity in real, material terms, you have to make your Money happy, because this is a RELATIONSHIP.

Here’s a story to illustrate the point. The writer is Janet Breitmeier, one of my proteges back in 2009:

“Sometimes I can’t believe the things that I do. Lately, the action that my money tells me to take is always the same. Money tells me to get outside and walk, enjoy the fresh air and clear my mind. I never do this because I don’t have time.

I also haven’t been able to attract any new clients lately. I even sent out another letter to my contact list. Nothing.

Today it came to a head. Money told me to get out and walk it is a beautiful sunny and yes, warm day. I said that I didn’t have time. The argument began. What was amazing to me was that it was very much like an argument. It was so real. He was soooooo angry.

I finally agreed and away we went for a walk. I went into downtown Dundas. It is a historic cute little town with a lot of trendy shops. Some I have never visited. Money told me to visit shops that I had never visited before.

I went into a shop where they sold incense and candles etc. A woman asked me if I wanted my tarot cards read. I agreed. It seemed like that was what I was there for. I had a great reading. Everything is good and in place for good things to come.

I found myself telling her about Financial Alchemy® and my training and sessions. She booked her first session for Monday afternoon. When I got home I received an email from another person who booked a session for Wednesday afternoon.

Note that this is the first time I sold the “transformation” not just one session.

Lesson of the day: be a great relationship partner to money. Listen and take action.

And here’s a secret to keep in mind: this is NOT a co-dependent, earn-your-money’s-love dynamic.

When you have a HEALTHY new relationship with money, the actions that make your money happy will ALWAYS be for your highest good and your highest values. Anything else is a monster.

MORGANA RAE is an internationally acclaimed life coach, author, and professional speaker, who is regarded as the world’s top Relationship with Money coach. Morgana’s groundbreaking program for attracting wealth has featured her on ABC-TV, PBS, NPR, United Press International and The Wall Street Journal online. Learn how to become a Money Magnet with her FREE 4-part video gift series. Fill out your name and email at the top of the page. (We promise not to share your info!)