“Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find
all the barriers within yourself
that you have built against it.”
I’m the girl who has always sought love.
I chased Brian Patterson under the piano at his 5th birthday party.
I was four.
And today as a coach, I see that behind every tale of financial woe is the story of a broken heart… a deficit of love.
The Alchemist does not begin with seeking gold. The first step of Alchemy is called “negridio”–the blackening… seeking out the darkness.
Where in your life have you built barriers to love?
For many of us those barriers show up in doubting our worth, not getting clients, not getting paid enough, not believing in ourselves, not attracting relationships that bring out our best.
I had such huge barriers to love in my business that I had to transform my image of money into a cute guy… just so I could stop pushing money away!
And I find, still, that every life breakthrough–whatever that means to you–is a function of love.
And yet, seeking love doesn’t yield the breakthrough.
Just like telling a person to love herself “more” is useless.
Forget the search. Look for all your reasons to repel or protect yourself from what you think you want.
This has been the story of my life over and over again… being the good student, doing everything “right,” chasing the dream, and finding that the key to what I wanted — clients, money, weight loss, romance, etc — came from finding, owning, embracing, and then changing my inner barriers first.
What was a barrier becomes a gateway…
Wanna reprint it for your blog or e-zine? Cool! Just post a “written by Morgana Rae” credit, and tell your readers to get my FREE Money Magnet Video Gift at www.morganarae.com. Thanks!