Growing up in the United States, and–even worse–growing up in Los Angeles, in the shadow of Hollywood, I learned a great many stereotypes about women and aging–our desireability, our loveability, our happiness.

I’m happy to discover that those stereotypes were complete BS.
About aging as a woman… it’s nothing like I was led to expect. Continue reading »

Is positive thinking the answer? Not always.

Not all valid perspectives are happy perspectives.

Healing takes time. And if we want to help our friends and clients, we MUST respect the life cycle of grief.

I suspect many people stay stuck because their grief was never validated. Continue reading »

If you’re feeling guilty for wanting more, or you think you can’t have more, you’re in an abusive relationship with money!!! Continue reading »