“I am really intrigued by the idea of a new relationship with money, but I’m wondering if it will work for someone who doesn’t have an actual positive real-life guy to model it on? I know that the process is not an intellectual one, but when I think about trying to have a money honey I think I’m bringing in a lot of baggage from guys and men who have disappointed me in real life. What if I have no positive male archetypes to draw upon for my money honey?”
Here’s a great Money Magnet Burning Question that came in:
“When I speak to money, do I need to be holding some money in my hands or can I just ‘speak to money’ as it were? I’m not sure what I need to visualize when I speak to money.”
Stop thinking of your Money as money. Money is not a number, it’s a relationship.
Make your Money Honey a HUMAN you would love and adore for his own sake, having nothing to do with his being money. You can’t love a piece of paper like you can love a lover.
A client today was telling me how much easier it was to care for and respect money when it became a HUMAN being.
You wanna learn UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? This is it, baby. That’s your relationship with your Money Honey. He loves you no matter what. You love him no matter what. And he’s so real you get butterflies in your stomach. (The Money Honey can be female too.)
But your Money Honey will never really exist for you unless you exorcise the monster before him. That’s the price of admission. Continue reading »
The magic of this practice lies in its independence from the other person’s action. Your appreciation is not contingent on your partner’s behavior. You are not saying “I would appreciate you if…” Nothing is more powerful than not trying to change the other. Continue reading »